Sowing the elegant seeds hidden in us all.
The flashing lights of the Sheriff vehicles were illuminating the street while I stood outside describing the events that led up to a large hand print on the side of my face. As Law Enforcement escorted him to the car, I knew there was no turning back. A sense of relief washed over me along …
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Photo by Pixabay: https://www.pexels.com/photo/adorable-animal-bed-bedroom-236606/ Ladies, the world expects us to be super. Super Mom, Super Wife, Super Businesswoman, Super Healthy, Super EVERYTHING! That’s a lot of pressure for just one person to handle. With so many responsibilities how does one find time for themselves? Time management helps with prioritizing and organizing how you spend your …
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I was born and raised in San Diego and even though Disneyland was less than two hours from my home I thought I could never go to any place like that. That wasn’t for people like me. With that mentality, how do you think I felt when my grandparents brought me to the Magic Kingdom for the first time?
PART 1 Lao Tzu once said, “The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” It is also said that life is not about the destination but the journey. But how does one go on a journey if one does not know where the destination is? Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “Do not …
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Every elegant person male or female have their life together, or at least fake it enough to convince everyone around them. When it comes to the community of the wealthy, an assistant usually helps with that image aspect. To come across as a hot mess to your friends, family, co-workers, and especially bosses is not …
Cultivating Elegance 